Expats and co-tenancy: rights when partner or family comes along

17 September 2025
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Expats and co-tenancy: rights when partner or family comes along

Many expats do not only move to the Netherlands, but also bring their partner or family with them. Often, the question arises: does the partner also have tenant rights? And what happens if the rental contract is solely on the name of the expat?

The rental lawyers of Arslan Advocates explain what co-tenancy means, when a partner or family member becomes entitled to tenant protection and how expats can arrange this properly.


What is co-tenancy?

Co-tenancy means that someone else becomes a legal tenant alongside the main tenant. This gives the same rights and responsibilities, such as:

  • Right to tenant protection.

  • Liability for rent payment.

  • Right to remain in the dwelling if the relationship ends or the main tenant dies.


When can a partner become a co-tenant?

  1. Automatically upon marriage or registered partnership.

    • The partner automatically becomes a co-tenant, even if the contract is only on one name.

  2. With permission of the landlord when cohabiting.

    • in case of a lasting relationship and shared living expenses, a partner can become a co-tenant after at least 2 years of cohabitation.

  3. Via the court if the landlord refuses.

    • The court can grant co-tenancy if there is a lasting relationship.


Why is co-tenancy important for expats?

  • Continuity for family: the partner can stay in the home if the expat leaves or dies.

  • Protection against the landlord: the landlord cannot simply evict one party.

  • Equal rights: both partners are responsible for the rent and have a say.


Practical examples

  • Expat in Amsterdam: had a rental contract in his own name, but lived together with his partner. When he returned abroad, his partner could enforce co-tenancy to stay in the home.

  • Family in Den Haag: had issues because only the expat had signed the contract. After legal steps, the partner still obtained co-tenant rights.

  • International student in Rotterdam: wanted his partner to be recognized as a co-tenant. The landlord refused, but the court ruled in favor of the partner.


Checklist for expats for co-tenancy

  • 📑 Check whether the rental contract is in both names.

  • 💍 In case of marriage or registered partnership: automatic co-tenancy.

  • 🏠 When cohabiting: ask for permission for co-tenancy.

  • ⚖️ In case of refusal: go to court with the help of a lawyer.


Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

1. Does my partner automatically become a co-tenant as an expat?
Yes, in case of marriage or registered partnership. No in case of cohabitation without formal registration.

2. Can the landlord refuse to make my partner a co-tenant?
Yes, but in case of a lasting relationship, you can obtain co-tenancy via the court.

3. What if I return to my home country, can my partner stay?
Yes, if your partner is a co-tenant, they can stay in the dwelling.

4. Does this also apply to children?
Children cannot independently become co-tenants, but they can continue to live as long as the parent is a tenant or co-tenant.


Conclusion

For expats, co-tenancy is essential to provide partners and families with security. Arrange this properly, so your family does not end up without a home upon return or unforeseen circumstances.

The rental lawyers of Arslan Advocates assist expats in applying for or enforcing co-tenancy, even if the landlord refuses.


Practical Tips for Expats Regarding Co-Tenancy

Understanding your rights and obligations as an expat tenant is crucial when your partner or family joins you in the Netherlands. Here are some practical tips to help you navigate co-tenancy situations effectively:

  • Review your rental contract carefully: Many rental agreements specify whether additional occupants can be added as co-tenants. If unsure, seek legal advice to avoid breaching your contract.
  • Communicate with your landlord early: Inform your landlord about your partner or family moving in and discuss the possibility of adding them as co-tenants. This transparency can prevent future disputes.
  • Consider a written agreement: If co-tenancy is granted, request a written addendum to the rental contract reflecting the new tenant’s rights and responsibilities.
  • Keep proof of cohabitation: Documents such as joint bank accounts, utility bills in both names, or a registered partnership can support your claim for co-tenancy rights.
  • Understand tenant protection laws: In the Netherlands, tenant protection is strong, meaning tenants cannot be evicted without valid reasons. A co-tenant shares these protections, ensuring housing security for your family.

Legal Framework Surrounding Co-Tenancy in the Netherlands

Under Dutch tenancy law, co-tenancy rights are designed to protect individuals living together in a rental property. Here are a few key legal points:

  • The Dutch Civil Code (Burgerlijk Wetboek) grants co-tenants the same legal standing as the main tenant.
  • If the main tenant passes away, the co-tenant has the right to remain in the property, preventing sudden eviction.
  • In case of relationship breakdown, co-tenants can assert their rights independently, which is particularly important for unmarried partners.
  • Cohabitation for at least two years or having a registered partnership or marriage are significant factors in establishing co-tenancy rights.
  • If the landlord refuses permission, tenants can bring the matter before the court, which will assess the nature and duration of the relationship.

Example Scenario

Imagine an expat named John moves to Amsterdam and rents a flat under his name only. After two years, his partner Maria joins him. They have no registered partnership but share expenses and live together continuously. John asks the landlord to add Maria as a co-tenant, but the landlord refuses. In this case, John and Maria can apply to the court to recognize Maria as a co-tenant based on their lasting relationship and shared living situation. If successful, Maria obtains tenant protection rights, including the ability to remain in the flat if John leaves or dies.

Need Assistance with Co-Tenancy Issues?

At Arslan & Arslan Advocaten, we specialize in tenancy law and understand the unique challenges expats face in the Netherlands. Whether you need help negotiating co-tenancy rights, drafting agreements, or representing you in court, our expert rental lawyers are here to support you every step of the way. Contact us today for tailored legal advice and secure your housing rights.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does my partner automatically become a co-tenant as an expat?

Yes, your partner automatically becomes a co-tenant if you are married or in a registered partnership. If you are cohabiting without formal registration, additional steps may be necessary to secure co-tenancy rights.

Can the landlord refuse to make my partner a co-tenant?

Yes, the landlord can refuse co-tenancy when cohabiting without formal registration, but if you have a lasting relationship, you can seek legal assistance to obtain co-tenancy through the court.

What if I return to my home country, can my partner stay?

Yes, if your partner is recognized as a co-tenant, they have the right to stay in the dwelling even after you leave or return abroad.

Does this also apply to children?

Children do not automatically acquire co-tenancy rights; their residence rights depend on separate legal arrangements or agreements with the tenant.


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